Sunday, March 11, 2007
Signs of Spring
Thursday, March 08, 2007
Our Lazy Days...
Saturday, March 03, 2007
Thursday, March 01, 2007
A Mom's Worst Fears
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
We Have A Tooth!
We have also learned two new words this week. Ay-ee for Bailey and I-I for night, night. We are also walking without holding on for 4 or 5 steps then letting ourselves down gently. He actually walked around me from one side of the toy box to the other. As I've said many times we are so blessed to have this sweet baby in our lives. I thank God everyday for blessing our lives with Connor Reid! These first 10 1/2 months have flown by and we look forward to many more months to come.

Sunday, February 18, 2007
Shopping, Basketball, and Sulphur Springs
Saturday morning started early. Aunt Gretchen picked Connor up at 7:30 and took him to Sulphur Springs. The rest of us were going to head up after Jack's basketball tournament. Since we only had Jack, Greg and I took him to breakfast. It was so fun to spend time with our oldest and really talk about school and friends with no interruptions. Greg and Jack then headed up to watch Garrison play basketball. Jack enjoyed cheering him on. That afternoon Jack had a game. Only 5 players showed up! Greg is his coach and we get really frustrated because no one calls when they are not going to be there. It made for a long game for those 5 tough boys. Needless to say, they lost, but the effort of those boys was amazing. Jack is so much fun to watch. He scored all the points his team made!!! He hustles and is in the other teams face the whole time. I really believe we may have found THAT SPORT. The one he is suppose to play. He loves everything he plays but is really gifted in basketball.
Mimi, Papa, Tamara, Emma, and Terry came to watch him and he was so proud!
Thanks guys for making him feel so special.
As soon as the game was over we headed out to Memaw's and G-Dads. I had missed my Connor all day and couldn't wait to see him. We had a great time as always and the kids enjoy time with Memaw so much. Greg is off Monday and he and Bailey and Connor stayed until Monday night. Jack and mommy headed back this afternoon. It was fun and strange to only have one child. One of the reasons for the trip other than playing with Memaw was for Greg and his dad to build a big media, playroom shelving unit for our playroom. I have been wanting this for a year now. Patience is not my strong suit, just ask Greg! I will post a pic when it is done. I can't wait.
Ok, back to Jack and mommy time. We had a fun ride home. Jack is usually so quiet because he can't get a word in with Bailey around. So it was fun to listen to him talk about sports, school, all the cities we passed, all the signs we passed, what he wanted to eat, friends, and many other things. I don't think we have talked that much in years. After we got home we had to watch the NBA All Star Game. He was hooting and hollering for Dirk and Josh Howard. He is already learning trash talk. He is yelling at the TV "You can't catch us now" "No one will beat the West" "Go... Dirrrrrk..." I loved our time together tonight Jack.
Sunshine School Parties
Friday, February 16, 2007
My Sweethearts!
Saturday, February 10, 2007
Sports and more sports!
Today he played great but they lost. He and his daddy have really enjoyed this time together. They have grown even closer and found more in common than they thought they had. I love to watch Greg light up when Jack pulls up and shoots a basket! He actually gushes about Jack's play. Today Jack stole a ball mid air and ran it back, pulled up at the free throw line and sunk a basket!!! It was all net, as the men said. The smile on Jack's face was priceless.
After the game we went to Mr. Gatti's for a pizza party with the team. It was fun to sit around and visit with the other mom's and dad's we don't see very often.
I know people who say you shouldn't put your kids in so many sports when they are so young and we shouldn't be so busy. My humble opinion is that my children, especially Jack loves to play sports and we do not ever force them to play. We as a family really enjoy that time together watching them play. We do stick to the one sport at a time rule and that keeps the craziness to a minimum. The only time it is tough is when soccer and t-ball overlap for one weekend. Then we have 4 games all on one Saturday. But, come on, it is one weekend a year.
Greg had also coached soccer and basketball and is considering coaching Jack in T-ball this summer. It is fun for him to spend that time with the kids. I think it is a fun thing our family can do together. Connor has been at some sort of game since he was a week old!
So, now that Basketball is ending, Soccer is beginning. Both play Soccer and Greg is Bailey's coach. She is the only girl again, we were hoping this year there would be at least one more girl.
It doesn't bother her as long as her favorite guy is out there with her. DADDY!
Sweetheart Carnival and Valentines
On the health front,
Greg is feeling better all the time. He is trying to adjust to a new lifestyle. He is eating healthier and resting when he can. The kids are loving having daddy play so much with them again! On one of the really nice days this week he took all three out front with him and played basketball and watched them ride bikes. It made me cry because two short weeks ago he couldn't have even picked up a basketball.
Connor has his very first ear infection! He was not sleeping and leaning to one side all the time so Greg took him to the Doctor and yes we had infection! I feel very blessed that this is his first one. Bailey had so many by 10 months that she was getting her tubes in.
Bailey is healthy as a horse! She is the one person in this family that I really don't worry about.
Jack for now is fairly healthy. He continues to have drainage that I am positive is allergies.
And mommy, well I can't be sick, so I am not!
Sunday, February 04, 2007
The Illness
He went in for the CT Scan and it seemed like it took forever for the results to come back. Greg actually called his Doctors office to see if they knew anything and the nurse told Greg he had them but was getting a second opinion before calling him. That of course made us a little nervous. In the mean time Greg has gotten really bad and is in so much pain he can't hold the kids or be on his feet for very long. Every joint on his body was now in horrible pain. He comes home from work and goes to bed almost everyday. They did try one round of a medicine, a steroid I think, and he felt better and we thought this is it! But, once the steroid is cut back to a small dose the pain comes back even worse. So, the CT Scan finally comes in and when Greg calls me to tell me what he said I could tell he didn't really want to tell me everything. First, they are pretty sure he has something called Sarcoidosis. It is blah, blah, blah... Then he says "there is also a small chance and mind you it is a small chance they are pretty sure it is the other but a small chance..." And I'm saying just tell me!! "A chance it is Lymphoma". I don't remember anything else he said that night. I shut down for a while and needed time to process what they were telling us. I cried a little and called my mommy of course. After her pep talk I was ready to face it and deal with whatever God had in store for us. You see, I don't think God expected me to be totally alright immediately or to not ask some why questions. It is all a part of our human nature that he gave to us. I decided that night that I would keep it in check for my kids! I wanted them to know that even with daddy sick, life would go on as normally as possible. So, if I was going to cry or have a why me moment it would be when I was alone! I also decided that night that I would not play the what if game, we would not look things up or listen to people with horror stories. We would face whatever it turned out to be once we knew for sure what we were really dealing with. I didn't even think about the possibility of Lymphoma because we just simply didn't know for sure anything.
So, here we have this random illness, my perfectly healthy husband, and the next step.
We needed to have a biopsy as soon as possible to find out which of the two it was.
We went in that same week on Wednesday and saw two surgeons. One was a thoracic surgeon and one a pulmonoligist. The decision was for the thoracic surgeon to do the biopsy because of where the lymph nodes were located in his lungs. The biopsy itself was a little unnerving. We scheduled it for that same Friday. I think the fact that all this happened in one weeks time was scary. The biopsy was to gather a large amount of lymph nodes from the lungs because they were what looked suspicious to the radiologist. Ok, more background, the rash on the legs could have been caused by either of these diseases also. The enlarged lymph nodes also could be caused by both. So the only way to know for sure which it was, was to do a biopsy.
Friday morning early we checked into the hospital for the surgery. They did more bloodwork and a new chest x-ray. Then we sat in pre-op for a while and the surgeon and anesthesiologist came in to talk to us. They asked a lot more questions and then left a nurse to prepare him. I leaned into the doorway to hear what they were saying and overheard them both saying they felt really sure it was the Sarcoid! I hung onto that all during the surgery. I was told it would take an hour or an hour and a half. Two and a half hours later I was getting very nervous. I think mom, Kristen and Stephanie could tell I was beginning to get really upset. Just then the surgeon came out to tell me Greg looked great and the preliminary results were Sarcoid so they had pumped him full of steroids and pain meds. He told me he could tell that Greg was in horrible pain and they really wanted to give him some relief!
What we do know about Sarcoid is that it is an auto immune disease. It can affect any and several organs. Most people don't know that they have it. It affects mostly African Americans! Greg was only actually in a 3 % chance to have this. The organs it affects the most is the lungs. We wouldn't have known he had it if we didn't do a chest x-ray. It also caused the rash thing on his ankles and that rash thing causes joint pain. The Sarcoid also can affect your joints in a small amount of people. So basically, Greg got a double whammy of joint pain by having these two diseases. He is now on a steroid and we are beginning to deal with all the affects of the steroid he is taking. That is another blog, another time!
I am so grateful to God for taking care of all of us during this ordeal. I am also grateful to many friends and family for their kindness and support.
We know that we have a long road ahead of us but are ready to face it with each other and God beside us!
Monday, January 15, 2007
The Hunting Trip

Greg and Jack went to the deer lease to hunt the weekend after Christmas. Everyone was there except Bailey, Connor and I who stayed home to rest. Jack had been looking forward to this trip for so long. He sat in the stand with daddy and was really good. Daddy got a doe and Papa got a buck. When it was picture time Jack wanted his picture taken with Papa's buck!
He was really proud of the hunt!
Finally...

I am finally to the last Christmas event! Christmas Day after we had our time with Santa gifts we all headed to Mimi and Papa's for the Riddle side of Christmas.
Both my granny and papa were able to be there and that doesn't happen very often now. All the Riddles were able to come except for Terry and Emma who had the stomach bug.
I got a really good picture of the three kids with granny and papa.
Christmas this year was so enjoyable watching the kids excited faces and seeing Connor experience everything for the first time. I love the holiday season and so do my kids but once it is over I am so ready to get back to "normal". Everything came down between Christmas and New Years and now we start a new year!
Wednesday, January 10, 2007
Did He Come?
Connor finally got it! He really enjoyed all his gifts from Santa. He couldn't stop smiling.
Jackson got his Game Cube and hasn't stopped playing it since that day!
Bailey loves her market and her new CD The cheetah Girls to play in her new CD player her Aunt Tamara gave her.
Well, this year Santa was really good to the kids. Hopefully they will stay off the nauty list and he will come to visit us again next year.
Over The River And Through The Woods
Jack really loved everything, but he especially liked some Safari animals that Terry, Nicole and the girls got him. He also got a game for his Game Cube that we are still at this point hoping Santa brings him!
Bailey got so excited about everything she got! She was so excited. She loved her new Princess skates and some more wooden food in a basket.
We always take pictures in front of mom and dad's tree with PJ's on .This was a really cute one with Aunt Tamara. Jack and Bailey had on matching pajamas but I never found matching ones for Connor. Maybe next year.
Who are those cute kids? Now it was time to go home and get ready for Santa!
Later That Day...
Bailey was thrilled with her big veggies and her chef's hat and apron. She is so... into cooking right now. Jack and Connor got her a cash register with a plastic credit card, she thinks she is so grown up.
Jack got a new Bible with a camo cover from Mom and Dad. He was really excited to take it to church the next week. Connor and Bailey got him a new Star Wars figure.
Sweet Connor, he was still not so sure about all this craziness! He is so layed back that he just rested on me and let us open his gifts for him. He got a puppy from Jack and Bailey and mommy and daddy got him some big soft blocks. He liked playing with both presents. More to come...
Christmas Eve
Christmas #1
We started our Christmas celebrations with a night of fun at Uncle Sean and Aunt Stephanies. We ate wonderful Italian food and yummy desserts and opened lots of packages. Connor was more interested in climbing and playing with daddy and mommy than opening anything. He wasn't really even interested in the paper, boxes or bags this night.

Jack really enjoyed all his fun gifts and Bailey was so thrilled to get an Easy Bake Oven! She has "bugged" me ever since to open it and bake something. I know I can't hold out much longer.
It was definitely a fun way to begin our Holiday Season!
Friday, December 22, 2006
Thursday, December 21, 2006
It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas...
I have so much to catch up on!Jack is playing basketball now and loving it! He is actually really good at it. Greg is his coach and I think he is really enjoying doing this with Jack. Jack hasn't actually scored yet and his first game ended with a BIG score of 4-2! He is also thrilled to have his good friend Kyle on his team. Kyle and his family have become friends of ours through school and all the sports the boys play together. I think this is the fourth sport they have played together. GO HAWKS!!!
Last Thursday we had our parties at Sunshine School. Bailey had a great time making a Santa and eating yummy foods. She was so excited that she and Ashlyn had on the same shirt. We have been very blessed to have our kids go to Sunshine School. They have learned so much and really enjoy each day they go. Connor loved his party! They gave him this sugar cookie covered with icing. I said he would never be able to eat it. Boy, was I wrong. He chowed it down so fast and all the little girls in his class were still looking at it when he finished. After his cookie he was ready for a nap. My class had a great party. My moms are wonderful and thoughtful. They were so good to me for my birthday and Christmas. But, I was ready for a break for a while.
My favorite day so far this December, by far, was our annual trip to North Park. We always go see the Santa there. I love how jolly and friendly and realistic he is. My kids truly believe he is the real Santa and all the other malls are just his helper Santas. We went out early in the afternoon with Mimi and sat on Santa's lap. It was the best year ever. Not just because Connor was with us this year but because it went so smoothly. All three smiling and happy and looking at the camera. No stress for me. Connor loved Santa! Bailey even loved Santa this year. Jack has always loved Santa. Then we met everyone else and ate and saw Scrooge. Jack got picked on this year. He loved it. While we were there Jack saddled up to the band playing outside Dillards and sang with them for a long time. They loved him and said they made more money because of him and invited him to come to Sam's Club on Greenville the next day to sing with them again! He was so cute and he truly is comfortable around all ages. The man he sang with was elderly and Jack loved him and talked his ears off. He is such a friendly kid!
Bailey and I were invited to Kendyll's for a Cookie Exchange. Bailey was so excited. We made cookies forever on Saturday night, after we had gone to Santa's Village for a while. Bailey was such a big help making the cookies. She rolled all 4 dozen and helped me roll them in the nuts. She really looked cute in her apron. Then she went to bed...
and woke up at midnight throwing up! And she kept throwing up! All night long. Poor Bailey, no cookie party for her. She was so upset. Whatever she had worked its way through several of us before it was done. Hopefully we are over all the sick before Christmas.
Finally, on the 6th day of Christmas my true love (Jack) gave to me a fun Christmas party at his school! I am Jack's room mom and we had a great time making an ornament (that Jack broke) and eating decorated cookies, and playing games. It was fun to be in a room with that much excitement. I am really enjoying helping Jack's sweet teacher so much this year.
So far December has been one crazy month! We are enjoying it so much and can't wait for the rest of the 12 Days of Christmas!
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
My Hunting Boys

I grew up in a family that hunted. So, it isn't hard for me to understand my husband who likes to hunt. But now, I am raising hunting children too. Jack always wants to shoot his G-dads pellet gun and talks all the time about going hunting with daddy. Bailey, who refused to put her camo on for this picture, always asks her daddy if she can go hunting with him too. She likes the idea of going anywhere with her daddy, but she is not so crazy about the clothes! That's my girl.
I am pretty sure Connor will follow his big brother and want to go hunting also. They do make a handsome picture!
Monday, November 27, 2006
Trimming The Tree
Christmas is really special to me this year, it is the first year for our completed family to celebrate. With Connor added this year everything will be new and the other two can't wait to show him everything. I want this to be the best Christmas ever.
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Blessings!
This time of year is spent on remembering the things we should be thankful for. I hope to instill in my three children that we should always be thankful not just at this time. I love all holidays but especially the one where we "Count our Blessings".Here are a few of mine-
My loving, patient husband, who keeps me grounded.
My three adorable, wonderful children.
My family, who loves unconditionally.
My close friends, who keep me in line and support me no matter what.
My home, clothes, and food that God provides us.
My grandparents, who I have such treasured memories from my childhood.
All our sweet family members who have gone on to be with God. It is comforting to know that they are watching over us.
My children's teachers who help guide their little minds.
Our health, that we tend to take for granted. So many people are dealing with serious health issues.
I guess I could go on forever...
One of my pet peeves is not having a Thanksgiving. Every year now it seems like we jump from Halloween to Christmas without more than a quick stop to be thankful. The meaning behind this holiday is so special and we should never forget to celebrate it!
Monday, November 13, 2006
My Favorite Season




We spent a great afternoon this last Sunday playing in our backyard. The older two kids love to play out back and will stay out all day if I let them. Jack was out back with a short sleeve shirt and Bailey had no shoes on. You wouldn't know it was cool if you looked at my older two. Take a look at Connor and how bundled he was and you can tell it was cooler.
Greg put back up our baby swing and we bundled Connor up tight and let him swing. He loved it and watched all of us, laughing everytime Lulu ran past him.
Jack and Bailey piled leaves up and jumped into them for a long time. We have a GIANT tree out back and the amount of leaves that fall off of it in the Fall is enormous!
Daddy and Jack played football and Bailey jumped on the trampoline while I pushed Connor in the swing.
I love everything about Autumn. The colors, the smells, the crisp cool air, football, jumping in the leaves, the long sleeve clothes, Bailey in tights and long dresses, flannel pajama pants, socks all day long, all the new shows on TV.
Friday, November 03, 2006
Halloween #2
Halloween this year was really quick! With a little one again for the first time in years we only tricked and treated a few houses. It was chilly and Connor didn't need to be out in it very long.After we dressed everyone in their costume we headed over to Mimi's and Papa's for a good scare. After they knocked on the door Papa came running around the corner outside and yelled BOO! Only Papa was dressed up as a skeleton. Jack just looked at him but Bailey screamed and screamed and cried and cried! Very dramatic.
Connor was just trying to figure out what was going on. After going to a few of Mimi's neighbors we headed home to show some of our neighbors the kids in their costumes. It was pretty late by then so we went home and got everyone ready for bed. Bailey always decides her next years costume the Halloween before and never, ever changes her mind. She is so funny. Two years ago she decided to be Snow White and she was. Then last year she was going to be Ariel and she was and then this year she decided she would be an Aggie Cheerleader and Jack needed to be a football player and she wanted our new baby to be the mascot! Well, that is exactly what the three of them were. I can't wait to hear what she thinks, no what she knows they will be next year!


These are the three cutest kids in the world! At least according to Mommy and Daddy!
Our Nebraska Football player, our Aggie Cheerleader, and our puppy dog mascot!
Happy Halloween!
Thursday, November 02, 2006
Halloween #1
Three Kids and a Jack-O'Lantern!






